. But there is a fine line between exciting and embarrassing. That's why we have the five best tips for hot dirty talk on your smartphone.
Sexting: Sexy or embarrassing
Foreplay 2.0: Sexting. A mix of sex and texting. Actually relatively self-explanatory, but that dirty talk via smartphone can quickly go wrong and become really embarrassing. So that you don't make a complete idiot of yourself, we have the five best sexting tips for you.
Sexting: 5 tips for hot WhatsApp flirting
#1 Check your mood
Simply falling into the house with the door can go really wrong. Check the mood of your flirt beforehand. An innocent "I can't stop thinking about you..." or "I had a hot dream today" are a good start. If he changes the subject and doesn't seem interested, leave it alone. But does he accept it? Very good, go for it!
#2 Spelling
Spelling is sexy. Typos happen. You have other things on your mind than German grammar - that's understandable. Unfortunately, they are still really unsexy. Your message seems so hastily and inattentively written. So take a little longer and read your text again before you press “Send”.
#3 Hints
What makes you happy is what you read between the lines. Sometimes an innuendo can be hotter than explicit details. Playful hints leave room for imagination. But here you should pay attention to a healthy balance. Of course, the news shouldn't be too vague. A “What are you wearing right now?” taken out of context can lead to “A sweater, why?” Awkward!
A good place to start is, for example: "Do you feel like having dessert in bed tonight?" If you've known each other for a while, you can simply end your messages with three dots. He'll know immediately what you're getting at.
#4 Stimulate fantasies
Make him curious and stimulate his imagination. As I said, you don't have to be explicit right away. Sentences like “If you could only see what I’m wearing right now…” can really get him fired up. Whatever really turns him on are shared (sexy) experiences or a hot memory of your last date.
With sentences like “Do you remember last night…” or “I had goosebumps everywhere when you…” he definitely can’t take his eyes off the screen.
#5 Become more offensive
Bet you have his undivided attention by now? Now you can be a little more offensive. A bit of provocation is part of it. How about, for example, “I want to feel you inside me”?
If you still have a few inhibitions, you can play the ball into his half of play. With the question “Guess what my imagination is doing to me right now?” you leave the answer to your sexting partner. At the same time, you find out what really makes him hot and what he would do to you.
#6 Pictures? Yes, but with caution!
“A picture is worth a thousand words” and when he sees a photo of you in sexy lingerie, he will hardly be able to contain himself. But you should be careful here. Only send pictures if you really trust your sexting partner. It could well be that he shows your hot photo to his friends or that the ex posts it online as revenge.
Do you still want to send a picture? OK. Then play it safe: When sending, make sure that no characteristics such as tattoos, birthmarks or your face are visible.
Little tip: put a black and white filter over your image. The effect makes the image even more wicked and sensual.
#7 Feedback
Are you two really getting going now? It's crackling and he's doing a really good job? Let him know how much you like his messages. This way he knows what you like and your partner becomes more self-confident thanks to the positive confirmation.
A simple “You turn me on so much” is enough.
But in general: There is no patent recipe for the perfect dirty news. Not everyone is into sexting. Any flirt and every relationship is different. Try it out: Part of the game is finding out what the other person likes.
And very important: In general, you should only ever send what you really want to share. Don't let yourself be put under pressure and don't do anything you're not ready for - no matter what HE says! You should trust your partner. Even though sexting can be really hot, there's still the risk that your sexy lines won't just stay between you and end up with your flirt's friends.
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