Smartphones also offer great opportunities in sex life. For example with sexting. You can find out what this is all about, what you need to pay attention to and what mistakes you should definitely not make here:
What is sexting?
The word sexting is a combination of “sex” and “texting”. It's basically hidden behind it Dirty Talk with the cellphone. It's about sending dirty sentences or sexy selfies to stimulate the recipient's head. Sexting can be used in both new relationships and long-term relationships to get each other hot.
What's the best way to start sexting?
Sexting is not rocket science. In long partnerships, for example, you can reminisce “do you remember, when we were in the car….” Try to create an erotic mood. If you don't feel comfortable saying certain things, you can leave them open and replace them with three dots, for example. This suggestion is very telling. In newer relationships, a good introduction can be "I dreamed that..." or "I'm just imagining..."
Of course, you can also use everyday situations. “I’m lying in the bathtub…” or perfect for the summer “It’s so hot that I walk around the apartment naked all day”
There are no limits to your creativity. However, there are a few things to consider.
What should you avoid when sexting?
1. Out of nowhere.
Sexting I want to be well timed. An introduction that is too blatant quickly makes the whole thing un-erotic. If you've never exchanged messages like this before, it can be quite surprising. So it's better to start with an innocent mention in a subordinate clause that still makes it clear what you're talking about. If the other person doesn't respond to this or clearly shows a lack of interest in sexting. Then let it go.
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Being too reserved
At the Sexting It's important that both of you can get involved. If the hot news only comes from one person, the whole thing is less fun. It's completely okay to try it out at first, especially if you've never done it before properly sexed has. But you can be sure that once you're there, the other person can't wait to receive new dirty messages from you. So you don't have to be uncomfortable.
3. Unwanted photos
are certainly a nice thing when sexting. But only if you have discussed this beforehand! Unsolicited pictures are an absolute no-go! This can not only be a deterrent, but also punishable. So be sure to discuss beforehand whether photos should be part of your sexting or whether you would rather just play with words. Then there can be no unpleasant surprises.
And finally two little tips:
1. Don't make your partner wait too long. So don't write novels, but rather short and sweet. Be totally involved! There's nothing more off-putting than waiting too long for a response.
- Check whether you have selected the right recipient! It would be really stupid if your sexy message ended up in the family chat.
So have fun sexting, but be careful about your photos!